The new year invites new beginnings. And each day invites us to choose again.  How do we continue creating a secure and mutual relationship with our partner over the months and years?  Can I remember my best effort will bring us both comforting rewards? 

Stan Tatkin, PsyD., in Wired for Love, suggests we get to know who we are; our background, and how we are wired, so we can each take responsibility for our reflexes.  Secondly, Tatkin says it is important for each partner to know the other;  ...
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